INFJ

INFJ型的人尋求思想、關係、物質等之間的意義和聯繫。
希望瞭解什麼能夠激勵人，對人有很強的洞察力。
有責任心，堅持自己的價值觀。
對於怎樣更好的服務大眾有清晰的遠景。
對於實現目標有計劃而且果斷堅定。

他們生活在思想的世界裡。是獨立、有獨創性的思想家，具有強烈的感情、堅定的原則和正直的人性。
即使面對懷疑，INFJ型的人仍相信自己的看法與決定。
他們對自己的評價高於其他的一切，包括流行觀點和存在的權威，這種內在的觀念激發著他們的積極性。

有本能的洞察力，能夠看到事物更深層的含義，即使他人無法分享他們的熱情。

他們忠誠、堅定、富有理想 。
珍視正直，十分堅定以至達到倔強的地步。
他們對於什麼對公共利益最有利有清楚的看法。
因為珍視友誼 和和睦，INFJ型的人喜歡說服別人，
使之相信他們的觀點是正確的。
通過運用嘉許和讚揚，而不是爭吵和威脅，他們贏得了他人的合作。
他們願意毫無保留地激勵同伴，避免爭吵。

是深思熟慮的決策者，在行動之前他們通常要仔細地考慮。他們喜歡全神貫注於一件事情，這會造成一段時期的專心致志。滿懷熱情與同情心，強烈地渴望為他人的幸福做貢獻。注意其他人的情感和利益，能夠很好地處理複雜的人。

具有深厚複雜的性格，既敏感又熱切。
內向，很難被人瞭解，但是願意同自己信任的人分享內在的自我。往往有一個交往深厚、持久的小規模的朋友圈，在合適的氛圍中能產生充分的個人熱情和激情。

適合的領域有：諮詢、教育、科研、文化、藝術、設計等

適合的職業有：
特殊教育教師  建築設計師 培訓經理/培訓師
職業指導顧問 心理咨詢師 網站編輯 作家 仲裁人
人力資源經理 事業發展顧問 營銷人員
企業組織發展顧問 職位分析人員 媒體特約規劃師
編輯／藝術指導（雜誌） 口譯人員 社會科學工作者
心理診療師 大學教師（人文學科、藝術類）
心理學、教育學、社會學、哲學及研究人員 詩人
劇作家 電影編劇 電影導演 畫家 雕塑家 音樂家
藝術顧問 設計師

Stats

Rarest personality
type; estimated 2% of population

Characteristics

• private
• sensitive
• quiet leaders
• great depth of
  personality - intricately and deeply woven, mysterious, and highly complex,
  sometimes puzzling even themselves
• introverted
• abstract in
  communicating
• live in a world of
  hidden meanings and possibilities - part of an unusually rich inner life
• artistic (and
  natural affinity for art), creative, and easily inspired
• very independent
• orderly view
  towards the world but within themselves arranged in a chaotic, complex way only
  they could understand

Towards the self

INFJs value their
integrity a great deal. They are generally "doers" as well as great
dreamers. They have high expectations of themselves and need to live their
lives in accordance with what they feel is right.

They do this through total
trust of their intuition. They believe in constant growth and don't often take
time to revel in their accomplishments.

INFJs are proud of their authenticity,
respectful of their benevolence,

confident of their empathy. They also are
constantly in a state of self-renewal.

Towards the world

Towards the
future: credulous, the past: mystical. INFJs prefer the

future and the pathway
along which they aspire for profundity.

They've even been known to have
visions/premonitions/auditory and

visual images of things to come. They are
often said to possess

supernormal intuitive ability in both its forms:
projection and introjection.

They search for their unique identity and place in
the world, constantly

defining this better. They are activists there for the
cause, not for the

power, fantasize about getting revenge on those who
victimize the

defenseless, and put a lot of energy into identifying the best
system

for getting things done.

Relationships

An INFJ is often
hard to get to know. They are selective about their friends, but such a
friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words...

They hunger for
deep and meaningful relationships, provide spiritual

intimacy for their mates,
and can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among
their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates." In such
relationships, they strive for mutuality, don't believe

in compromising their
ideals, and can understand and deal with complex issues and people.

Towards others

It can be
difficult for an INFJ to articulate their deepest and most

convoluted feelings
to others. They tend to be secretive by holding back

and protecting part of
themselves, thus creating hidden sides to their personality. They are choosy of
what and when to share things and tend to only truly do so with those they
trust. When they reveal things, it is often through speaking interpretively and
metaphorically of the abstract world of their imagination. However, they can
work quite intensely with those close to them, being cooperative in
implementing goals - even though their own

trusted intuition can sometimes make
them stubborn. They can become aware of another's emotions/intentions before
that person is conscious of them.

This leads to strong empathic abilities, an
unusually strong desire to

contribute to the welfare of others while pointing
out human potentials,

and uncanny communications with certain individuals at a
distance. They

are often leaders who go unnoticed, quietly exerting their
influence behind

the scenes. When working with others, they are very sensitive
to conflict

and cannot tolerate it very well. They will prevent/avoid it at all
costs.

They also provide an opportunity for fantasy for their children.

INFJs are warm and affirming people who are usually also deep and
complex. They're likely to seek out and promote relationships that
are intense and meaningful. They tend to be perfectionists, and are
always striving for the Ultimate Relationship. For the most part,
this is a positive feature, but           sometimes works against the INFJ
if they fall into the habit of moving from relationship to relationship,
always in search of a more perfect partner.                  In general, the INFJ
is a deeply warm and caring person who is highly          invested  in the health
of their close relationships, and puts forth a lot of effort    to make
them positive.
They are valued by those close to them for these     
special qualities. They seek long-term, lifelong relationships, although
they      don't always find them.

INFJ Strengths

• Warm and affirming by nature
  
• Dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship
  
• Sensitive and concerned for others' feelings
  
• Usually have good communication skills, especially written
  
• Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
  
• Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength    and weakness)
  
• Good listeners
  
• Are able to move on after a relationship has ended (once they're sure it's over)

INFJ Weaknesses

• Tendency to hold back part of themselves
  
• Not good with money or practical day-to-day life necessities
  
• Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
  
• Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength    and weakness)
  
• Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship
  

INFJs as Lovers

"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as
the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to
joy, fulfillment, and an     intensity of consciousness we did not know
was possible before." -- Rollo May

INFJs are warm, considerate partners who feel great depth of love
for their partners. They enjoy showing this love, and want to
receive affirmation back  from their mates.

They are perfectionists,
constantly striving to achieve the Perfect Relationship. This can
sometimes be frustrating to their mates, who may feel put upon by the
INFJs demanding perfectionism. However, it may also be greatly
appreciated, because it indicates a sincere commitment to the
relationship, and a depth of caring which is not usually present in
other types.